Frequently Asked Questions


What is Sensual Fluency?

Sensual Fluency is mastery of the language of the body via the senses.


How do you teach Sensual Fluency?

Laughing Goddess helps to bridge the disconnect between you and your body that is often a natural result of growing up in a Western patriarchal culture.


Why Sensual Fluency?  

Our bodies are encoded with the Wisdom of all our Grandmothers since the beginning of time.  This is not a metaphor, but simply a function of evolution.

As we connect to this Wisdom, we are liberated from the psychological imprisonment of patriarchy.  We rediscover our true nature as magical beings, and we step into our personal power as sovereign humans.

When we understand our nature–and the nature of all things–as energy, we can cultivate, harness, and wield this energy, as we please, to create life on our own terms.


What is magic and what does that have to do with Sensual Fluency?

Magic is the natural result of living Sensual Fluency.

The act of cultivating, harnessing, and wielding energy with a directed purpose is itself magic.  Sensual Fluency is your how, the bridge between feeling like life happens to you and consciously co-creating life on your own terms.

Your body is your bible.  Through it, you can access the limitless knowledge of the Cosmos…  This awareness will become second nature to you as you develop Sensual Fluency.


With whom would I be co-creating?  This isn’t some ‘deal with the Devil’ type stuff, is it? 

All humans are magnets. 

And all humans attract the complement of their current psychology. 

That’s important.  Lets dig…

Psychology: the way you see your world, the lens through which all your experiences are filtered, your internal rationalization system.

By default, we become our psychology.  That is our vibrational frequency.  That is our inner experience, and that is what we emit, so it overlaps into our outer experience as well.

For example: I am not enough.  There is something wrong with me.  I am unlovable.

These are vibrations, specific resonances.

Most of us are driven by one or a few of these root frequencies due to unresolved early trauma.

Almost all of us are walking around processing and emitting everything we experience through these frequencies.

Therefore, an interference pattern is created and experienced as either harmony or disharmony with our external environment.

Collectively, this creates our experience.  Our experience is our co-creation.


Now think of a murmuration.  We, too, are lifted by this collective movement, this momentum, and we are also at mercy to forces, like the wind, that are far bigger than are we.


No, you are not signing a deal with the Devil.  You are learning to work with the energy patterns and behaviors and momentum of the world around and within you.

This is living magic.


What’s this got to do with patriarchy?

Western patriarchy has created a culture where we unconsciously demonize all things natural and all things feminine.  Eve is blamed for the fall of man.  Sex is bad.  Getting dirty is bad.  Saying “pussy” is bad.  Pagans are bad.  Showing your skin is bad.

We’ve been cut off from everything that links us to our inner–read: Divine–power.

^^^ Please take a moment to drink that in, because you must swallow it to be initiated into Powerhood.

Let me say it again: we have been cut off from everything that links us to our Divine power.

This is not in the least accidental, and there were times when we would have had access to this awareness and information.

If we trace back our human and our cultural roots, we will see our journey begin to shift from one which is Earth-centered, that is, working with the land and the world around us to sustain ourselves (Sensual Fluency), to one which saw nature as something to conquer, to harvest, to exploit, to pound and to push, to suck and suck until, literally, the ground is left barren.

I don’t know about you, but this kinda sounds like the experience of the typical modern Western woman to me…

Sistars, this is not about seventy cents to every dollar.

This is about rape culture being normal culture, “health care” being an industry, and the fact that we are the only developed nation that isn’t required to provide its Mothers with paid maternity leave!

This is about the fact that the vast majority of our time and energy goes into working to make the 1% richer and then we turn around and put the majority of it right back in the 1%’s pockets.

At what cost to us?

To our families?

Patriarchy defines our lives as worker bees, cogs and soldier-birthers, subordinate to military and legal authority with agendas that couldn’t give a fuck less about our personal welfare.

With Sensual Fluency, you will see right through this psychological enslavement, and you will know how to wield the tools to pivot your way into any life you wish to create.


Ummm…I’m not into that religious stuff…what do you mean by “Divine,” anyway?

Our Divinity is the infinite aspect of us, as distinguished from our temporary selves, our personality, our ego, our physical body, etc.

Your Divine aspect enlivens or animates your temporary aspect.

You are your Divine aspect experiencing through your temporary aspect.

When these guys work together, magic happens!  😉

(Sensual Fluency teaches this, too.)


What religious or spiritual tradition is Laughing Goddess coming from?

This quote may help us, “Science is spirit revealed.”


(More coming soon. <3 )


Do I need to be a certain religion to resonate with the material of Laughing Goddess?

Nope.  I mean…I’m being as real with you as possible, so if any of this resonates for you, we’re good.

If I sounded like an alien, you probably wouldn’t have made it this far into the document.  😉

But if you have, even if just for curiosity: leave now!

This is sacred space and I refuse to wear a filter here.  No apologies.  …as weird as shit may get…

I encourage each of you to find a sacred space in your life where you can do the same.  Find at least one place where you can speak in the full of your strength, no pussy-footin around to protect people’s insecurities.  Own it, Sistar, even if it’s only in your tiny car with the windows up as tight as possible (…to start 😉 ).

Laughing Goddess is my that, that sacred space.  (Them masks done messed up my goddess-brows for too long…)

So do you need to be a certain religion or blah-di-blah?  No…but for damnitallsake, in the spirit of Laughing Goddess, be YOU here if nowhere else!


Is Sensual Fluency about feeling sexy and having great sex?  

These are some really really fun benefits of living Sensual Fluency, but sex is just one kind of sensual experience.  In our culture, we tend to think of “sensual” and “sexual” as synonymous, but sensuality is about the senses (taste, touch, smell, sight, sound), and sexuality is specifically about…sex and sexuality–which, if we’re lucky, can be a super sensual experience.

Sensuality is anything you can experience with the senses, and in fact, this is the only way we can interact with the world around us.  Our sensuality is–our senses are–the bridge between our inner world and our outer experience.

That said, sex and sexuality are a big part of living Sensually Fluent.

For one, Sensual Fluency absolutely requires we face, challenge, and commit to resolve our sexual trauma, however severe (history of rape) or subtle (unconscious belief that sex is dirty).

What’s more, sex is creation, and when we are Sensually Fluent, we understand that sexual energy is the same energy that drives us to create an oil painting or compose a piece of music.  Energy itself is sexual energy and sexual energy is just energy itself.  Our Western patriarchal conditioning has separated these concepts in our minds, but they are not at all separate.

…the fun part is that our bodies are wired to cultivate, harness, and direct this energy for potent magical manifestation.  (HINT: Which is why all this is suppressed information…)

Sensual Fluency will provide you with the tools to wield your Divine sensuality to create a life on your own terms.


I love you, Laughing Goddess!  How do we get started?!  

Muahahahaha!  The first step is to schedule a time to connect by phone or chat for an initial consult.


Tell me more about the initial consult.

I offer a 30-minute phone or chat conversation as a way for us to connect and see how we could work together.  During this conversation, you will have an opportunity to ask any questions you may have about the process.  We will also discuss what you would like to take way from a Partnership with Laughing Goddess, and we’ll talk about what may look like for us.

This initial consult is free.


How much are the Laughing Goddess Partnership Packages?

Prices are different based on the Partnership Package.

Payment plans, as well as limited bartering may also be available.

We will discuss these details during our initial consultation.

You may also browse the Laughing Goddess Partnership Packages here.


What is the time commitment for the Laughing Goddess Partnership Packages?

Each Partnership Package starts with a three-month commitment which can be extended in 6-week increments thereafter.

When you sign on with Laughing Goddess, you sign on to show up for yourself.

Every woman and every life is different, so this commitment will be different for everyone.  However, together we will develop a personalized commitment and it is expected that you honor this as sacred.

For instance, we may look at your life and compare it with your goals for the Laughing Goddess Partnership and decide you could dedicate 30 minutes three days/week to this Work.  Once that commitment is agreed upon, you are expected to show up.  This is of utmost importance to the Partnership, because to the degree that you can show up for this Partnership, you can show up for yourself.  This is the practice.

So the question is:  how much time are you willing to invest in YOU?


I’m not sure which Laughing Goddess Partnership Package is right for me.  How do I choose?

We’ll discuss this during our initial consult.  You can schedule directly into your Google Calendar here.


What is the structure of the program?

This varies for each Laughing Goddess Partnership Package.

Click here to learn more about Living Magic: Wield Your Divine Sensuality

Click here to learn more about Freestyle: Intuitive Sistar Magic


How do I learn more about you and what “psychology” you’re coming from?  😉  

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Wield the power of your divine sensuality.

Magic is like any medium and can, in fact, be used for good or for harm.

For me, it is a sacred responsibility to pass on this knowledge to only those mindhearts who deeply understand the consequences of working against anything, and the abundance that responds to any endeavor which is genuinely meant to heal or to Serve.

Sensual Fluency is a means for reconciling psychological “splinter soldiers” to integrate the mind and body and align the infinite and temporary, the human and the Divine, to empower a being of balance, compassion, and reverence for the sacredness of Life.

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